Do Looks Matter?

It does NOT matter if you don’t look like a Hollywood sweetheart in the dating world. Only 20% of single men are primarily interested in looks, and you don’t want these men anyway. Not if you want a life partner and the healthy, loving relationship of your dreams….


A man will either like the way you look or won’t. Don’t get stressed about this. People are attracted to different characteristics, i.e., only tall people, only short people, or only brunettes, etc. Do NOT take this personally! There is nothing wrong with you.

Accept that not ALL men will be attracted to you, and that’s OK. Think about it you do not have time to date ALL the men, nor would you want to date many people. You only need to date the right ones. The one or two guys, who might be Mr. Right, that do find you attractive on the inside and outside. So, don’t stress; just try to look YOUR best and look for an attractive partner on the inside, not just the outside.

Some single women get stressed out trying to make themselves look like movie stars. In the dating world, it does NOT matter if you don’t look like a Hollywood sweetheart. The only time you need to look like a movie star is if you plan to make a living being movie star. Otherwise, you just want to look YOUR best.

However, a small percentage of men out there want a woman who looks like a model. Only about 20% of single men are ONLY interested in looks.

Be wary of dating these men!

If they only want a gorgeous partner, you may be traded in for a newer model shortly. If you want true love, a life partner, and a healthy loving relationship, look to the other 80% of singles who want a partner for more than physical “perfection.”

If you’re on an online dating site and the man is looking for a petite woman, but you’re 5’10”, don’t feel bad. You move on to the next man. Many men out there won’t fit your needs, but there are always a few that will be a perfect fit.